Butt Plugs for Beginners: The Relaxed Guide

Anal play is one of the things people are most curious about – and most nervous about. The good news: with the right toy, plenty of lube and a little patience, it can simply feel good.

What is a butt plug?

A small teardrop-shaped toy with a narrow neck and a flared base that stays outside. It gives a pleasant feeling of fullness, solo or during sex – for women and men (for men it also reaches the prostate area).

The #1 rule: a flared base

Never put anything in the back that doesn’t have a flared base. Every plug we sell is built for exactly that.

Which plug to start with?

• Training set (3 sizes): the smartest start – begin small, move up only when you want to.
• Silicone: soft, flexible and comfortable – the safest first choice.
• Metal with a jewel: super smooth, easy to clean, can be warmed or cooled.
• Remote vibrating plug: for the next step – vibration relaxes and adds a lot.
• Anal beads: graduated beads for a gradual build-up.

Step by step

• Lots of lube. Really. With silicone toys, water-based lube only.
• Relax. A warm shower, deep breaths, start with external touch.
• Go slow. If it hurts, stop – pain means stop, not “push through”.
• Keep it short the first time.
• Clean before and after with warm water and mild soap.

Best plugs for beginners

• Beginner Butt Plug Training Set – 3 Sizes
• Heart Jewel Plug Set – 3 Sizes
• Slim Mini Vibrator – Rose Gold
• Silicone Anal Beads – 4 Lengths
• Jeweled Vibrating Plug with Remote – 10 Modes

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